Marriage and family know social stigma in Indian society Family with marriage

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Recently, a woman from Indore filed a complaint against her Mumbai-based in-laws that her husband could not develop mentally and physically. Therefore, there could be no normal marital relationship between them. According to the complainant, when he complained about this to his mother-in-law, she did not respond to this matter, on the contrary, she demanded the girl to bring Rs 20 lakh as dowry.

Here, the police have registered a case and started their investigation. It will take time to find out what the reality is, but this news highlights a very big and serious problem. From which we often want to escape by becoming an Indian ostrich. This theme is about lying, cheating and hiding the truth and getting married.

In fact, this is not the first anecdote, the courts are full of such anecdotes and this is also a small percentage. I don’t know how many stories would have been deleted and how many would have been played that way.

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Reality of marriage and society

Both these cases are true and the even bigger and bitter truth is that even today in our marriage mandap, physically and mentally challenged people sit thinking that they will be healthy after marriage.

Indeed, those who think like this will not be found only in the country-people class or the illiterate. These people will also be found in elite educated families. Perhaps the knowledge of all these people is limited to movies where even a mentally challenged man after marriage turns out to be a handsome and sane Sanjeev Kumar, without any treatment, just by contact with a woman! He doesn’t need pills or any psychiatrist.

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She used to live in the neighborhood. We used to call her bella didi. A mine of virtues in every way. Top in reading and writing, they cook the food in such a way that the diner gets tired of praising, there is no competition for them until they make rangoli and fry gujiyas in parties and from above they are beautiful. This means that God had indeed minted them.

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It was her personal opinion and she was happy with it. His dream was to live happily with his family. It is no less important. What makes a good family, a good society. And after all, only a good society makes a country.

Well…. So the demand of Sunder Wali Didi was very much in the wedding market. After all, who doesn’t want a daughter-in-law who also brings a lot of dowry and does all the work by being the permanent head of the house. Najo was born, Didi and her parents also had aspirations to have only one daughter, so they should have a good house and a good boyfriend.

After all, relatives told a boy that he was from a millionaire family. He was educated and took care of the family business. Everyone was happy and the happiest was the beautiful sister. The most important thing was that the boys did not want dowry but only the girl.

From above, the groom often remained locked in the bathroom for a long time. After hesitating a bit, finally one day the bride asked and got the answer: it’s a joint family. I have a habit of smoking cigarettes. I can’t drink in front of everyone now, can I? That’s why I drink in the bathroom. Speaking of the honeymoon, we’re going overseas soon.

The bride believed and before her dreams could have wings, one night she went to the kitchen to drink water when she was thirsty and on the way she found her beloved ‘husband’ lying on the floor. At first it looked like there was an accident. He shouted nervously but that day the rest of the house had gone to some function. The phone was switched off and the door was locked from the outside. This was a new scene for him.

Here the terrified bride brought her husband into the room as soon as he saw her breathing and kept up her courage throughout the night. When everyone returned in the morning, it was clear that the boy was a drug addict and had been for many years. When the girl’s parents asked questions, the mother-in-law replied, “We thought she would get better after marriage.” This is where the real talk begins.

Since all these things appear to be shortcomings when explained, they are thus hidden. And when the truth comes out, 80% of girls continue to curse their luck and so do 20% of guys. That is why medical horoscope matching before marriage is being emphasized nowadays, which is followed by almost 1 percent of the people.

When deceit, lies and deception form the basis of a permanent relationship like marriage, it becomes harmful not only to the two families but to the entire society. To hide something, a lie told once becomes a mountain of lies that will fall at once. We have to fight a very long battle against this social evil. Both courage and principle must be taken to tell the truth.

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Recently, a woman from Indore filed a complaint against her Mumbai-based in-laws that her husband could not develop mentally and physically. Therefore, there could be no normal marital relationship between them. According to the complainant, when he complained about this to his mother-in-law, she did not respond to this matter, on the contrary, she demanded the girl to bring Rs 20 lakh as dowry.

Here, the police have registered a case and started their investigation. It will take time to find out what the reality is, but this news highlights a very big and serious problem. From which we often want to escape by becoming an Indian ostrich. This theme is about lying, cheating and hiding the truth and getting married.

In fact, this is not the first anecdote, the courts are full of such anecdotes and this is also a small percentage. I don’t know how many stories would have been deleted and how many would have been played that way.


One more case-

The guy, who got married at the age of 35, got a doctor’s check-up and got a certificate whether he was fully fit for this new relationship or not. I wanted to start the relationship with everything clear. Everything was normal in the reports. The marriage took place with pomp, but the attitude of the newly wedded bride seemed strange to the groom. The bride had brought a box of medicines from her mother’s house. From which he continued to take medication. When the husband asked, it was postponed and the medicines were put back in the house. The truth came out in a few days without medication. The girl had a huge tumor that was being treated. It was a big blow for the boy. After that neither the girl’s health remained normal nor the boy’s married life.

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